The integrated medical and elderly care model is a new type of elderly care model designed to address the demands of the elderly in terms of physical health, daily care, and spiritual comfort. It has significant practical significance for actively responding to the problems of population aging. However, this model still faces a series of ethical dilemmas in practical. By analyzing the ethical issues that may arise during the integration of medical and elderly care services, including conflicts between medical care and elderly autonomy, the challenges faced by informed consent, conflicts of interest between medical and elderly care services, and blurred boundaries between family care and social care, this paper proposed corresponding strategies, such as improving the construction of personalized care mechanisms, optimizing multi-level protection systems for informed consent, establishing a unified interest coordination mechanism and resource sharing platform, and strengthening the synergy between family support and social care. These strategies aimed to promote the healthy development of the integrated medical and elderly care model, ensure the protection of the basic rights and interests and well-being of the elderly to the greatest extent, and ultimately achieve a fairer and more sustainable aging social governance system.